A woman arguing with her mother-in-law to sell daughters by sitting on the street

The relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law has always been referred to as the "difficulty in the world" in family relations. Now, the "wife-in-law drama" on the screen has become a hotly debated topic. Yesterday, an absurd farce took place in Shaping Park. The 23-year-old wife quarreled with her mother-in-law and took her luggage to the main street. She was holding a 10-month-old daughter and holding a card of cards to sell her daughter.

She sat on the street to sell her daughter

"To sell her daughter, I want to sell my daughter!" Yesterday afternoon, reporters rushed to a ceramic store across the street from Shaping Park. A young woman was holding a baby girl and holding a cardboard in her hand. She was sitting beside the street and selling her daughter. The reporter saw that the cardboard on the woman’s hand read “I am a nephew and my sister-in-law sells her daughter”. On the side of the woman, there are four or five luggage packages and a stroller. Many passers-by stopped to watch. I was amazed at the absurdity of the woman.

This reporter learned that the woman's name was Luo Haijin, 23 years old this year. Luo Haijin told reporters that she and her husband were the same people in Fuzhou, Jiangxi. They were introduced four years ago after they were introduced and met. The two couples came to Chongqing in 2010 to work together to earn money. At the beginning of this year, they rented a store opposite the Shaping Park. Do ceramic business. The days of the couple's days were fairly good, and they can earn seven or eight thousand yuan per month. However, everything changed with the birth of her daughter in November last year.

Speaking of his act of selling her daughter, Luo Haijin told reporters that in April when she and her mother-in-law took a girl child (cute name) from Jiangxi's hometown to Chongqing, they both had a small quarrel for two days and a big fight for three days. Four days ago, due to breast-feeding the children, the two quarreled again. "She said that I was blind and deceived and cheat at home!" said Luo Haijin, he felt very aggrieved, and he packed up and sat down on the street. Daughter, "I want to divorce him!" Luo Haijin said firmly.

Quarrel with mother-in-law triggers farce

At 2 o'clock in the afternoon, the outdoor temperature was as high as 40oC. Luo Haijin was sitting on the side of the street holding Tong Tong. The two eyes stared at the road with apathy. Just less than 10 meters behind Luo Haijin, she stood in the doorway of the ceramic shop. Shaking his head.

"She is like this, day chaos!" Luo Haijin's husband claimed to be surnamed Cai, he told reporters that his wife and his mother have always been discordant and often quarrel. "Because the child cried in the shower a few days ago, my mother told her to feed her milk. She refused. The two quarrelled again." Mr. Cai said that his wife had moved with his mother the same night and had a hand in the store. Ceramics broke and shouted for suicide.

A clerk at the side of the Shantou store told reporters that she often saw Luo Haijin and her husband quarrel. “The first few nights she had to throw wanderers in the trash couldn’t be too much.” The clerk said that it was normal for her husband to quarrel, but Luo Haijin wanted to throw children for a while and would sell children. It is ridiculous.

"I'm tired now. I don't know what to do." Mr. Cai said that since this time, he has been caught between his wife and his mother every day and the business in the store has been affected. "No business for a few days. The facade will expire in a month." Mr. Cai reluctantly said.

Due to red envelopes, there are grudges

Why is it so bad for mother-in-law relationship? The reporter learned from the interview that, originally, the two were in different villages and towns in Fuzhou. When they got married four years ago, Luo Haijin did not receive Cai Jia’s red envelope at the door, and Mr. Cai’s village did not have the custom to send a red envelope. Has become a major complaint in the heart of Luo Haijin. "I passed the door and gave birth to children. They didn't give a penny," Luo Haijin said.

Regarding his wife's act of selling her daughters in the street, Mr. Cai said that he was not careful. “I have become accustomed to her boring and mischievous tricks.” Mr. Cai told reporters that since his marriage, his wife and mother have always been discordant and that they have had children since then. The contradiction between the two continues to intensify. The ridiculous act of his wife "selling her daughter" hurt her mother's heart. "My mother told me to buy her a train ticket. She will return to her hometown in Jiangxi tomorrow," said Mr. Cai.

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The relationship between mother and father requires buffer zone

“The practice of this young mother is obviously wrong and extremely absurd.” Zhou Xiaoyan, a marriage counselor at the psychology professor at Chongqing Normal University, believes that the practice of 'selling daughters' is very likely to leave a shadow on the growth of children, and it also causes social problems. Bad effects.

Zhou Xiaoyan said that to make a good relationship between husband and wife, first of all, it is necessary for both parties to communicate and communicate with each other sincerely. The husband and family members should play the role of “lubricant” and adjust the contradiction between the two parties in a timely manner. The society can also establish a buffer zone for the relationship between the mother and father. Some elderly people can introduce their experience to the young wife, do ideological work for her mother-in-law and help build a buffer zone for her relationship.

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